I got closure from a guy about what was going on in his head. Score one for me.
He agreed to answer any question honestly, so I asked him about if he was lying about cancelling on me multiple times. He told me he was busy, just lied about how busy. I asked him if he saw me as a date/potential relationship or a hook up. He said he didn't do hook ups. I asked him if there was any chance we would have seen each other again. He said probably not, because he got cold feet.
Cold feet. About a second date.
You've got to be kidding me.
Honey, if you're getting cold feet about a second date, you need to take a step back and decide if you're psychologically ready to date people. Period. If the commitment of a date, not a relationship, not an engagement, not a marriage, gives you cold feet, you shouldn't be dating a girl and telling her about weeks in the future and taking her to sporting events. Because then you become a liar. You're lying about possible future dates, a future relationship. Because if the thought of bowling with a girl over beers gives you cold feet, you have a long way to go before you're ready.
Safe to say, Mr. Magician is out of the picture.
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