Clarification

When I started this blog, it was 100% geared towards making fun of the horrible pick up lines I get from different guys on different sites and apps. Because I didn't think I wanted a relationship for real until my job future was secure.

Once I knew my job was secure, I realized I was kinda lonely and most of all missed the companionship that came with a relationship.  I missed the bonding over shared interests, experiencing the other's interests for the first time, and most of all the just spending time together not saying a word.

So when I was invited out with coworkers and was introduced to one of their guy friends, I was open to seeing what happened.  They knew we had lots in common and that we both were nerds of the highest order.  So I thought we really hit it off, and we went out by ourselves a week later.  I had a great time and we had lots of fun, and he never called back.  But it was the kick I needed to realize that I was ready to date, for real.

Thus I took the online dating more seriously.  I still paid attention for horrible pick up lines to post here, but I actually started taking a look at guys for being guys, not for being tools.  And I took a chance with Mr. Magician, and it bit me in the rear.  But someone is out there, and I'm hoping he's online.

I'm still going to do this blog.  But the only adventures I will post will be the horrible and humorous.  If I meet a guy and he ends up being great and wonderful and we begin a relationship, then how it's going is no one's business.  The most anyone reading this will get is me telling you all if I did find someone worth my time and energy.  But nothing more.

So if you're hoping for play by play on every date I go on, forget it.  If you're waiting for a description of a wonderful guy I find, you're not going to read one.  This blog is for humor and sarcasm and reflection.  If you're disappointed, I really couldn't care less.